TEAM ONE NEWS for Monday, February 16 2004

Happy Monday, Team One!

Dr. Nick Calvino will be at the meetings in Wooster (Ohio), Rockford (Illinois) and Seattle in the next 30 days. Great opportunity to visit with the new doctor!

Make it a great day!

- Shyamla

IN THIS ISSUE:

UPCOMING LIVE CALLS


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RECORDED CALLS

212-461-8719 : Training Call with Dr.Brad Cords on MA+ with testimonials.
212-990-6211 : MA+ Product Call with many testimonials at the beginning of the call, followed by Dr. Cords on the product.
850-383-8213, option #37 : Stuart and Steve Finger on the ITI Opportunity using the 5-page business presentation.
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UPCOMING MEETINGS

A new product will be launched at the meetings on February 26th and 27th.


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BUSINESS-BUILDING TOOLS

My-PRO System : The 'myteampro' system is a great way to share the ITI opportunity with your guests and it also includes an auto-responder so you can invite your guests to the web site and stay in touch with them on a regular basis. To sign up or for more information go to www.MyTeamPro.com or via your back office under Rep Tools.

HEALTH NEWS :

The newspapers can be ordered at www.healthnewsweb.com or by calling 800-597-2585. The Health News is also available as an e-book in two forms - 1. a downloadable form that can be put on CDs and 2. a web site version with a recurring monthly fee.

Audio tapes and CDs

ORDER-TAKING "PRO-Podium" Web Pages & FREE "Buyers' Club" BANNERS - An effective way to maximize your results in both sign-ups and customer satisfaction! Highlight the "Specialty Items", TARGET your market and increase your customer base. Build trust with your customers through the "Health Coach" system and be rewarded over and over again through "repeat marketing". For more information on PRO-Podium webpages and to get your own FREE "Buyers' Club" website banners, go to www.PROpodium.com.
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THOUGHTS FOR THE DAY ON - PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY

"Champions take responsibility. When the ball is coming over the net, you can be sure I want the ball." - Billie Jean King

"God has such a sense of humor...we have the opportunity to do whatever we want with our lives...and He lets us!" - Doug Firebaugh

"Accept that you are where you are and what you are because of your own choices and decisions." - Brian Tracy

"The absent are never without fault. Nor the present without excuse." - Benjamin Franklin
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Victim and Responsible: Give Yourself a Choice
By Brian Klemmer

Let's continue our discussion of two viewpoints for looking at life: victim and responsible. Victim is the viewpoint that something is being done to me. Responsible is the viewpoint that I am the cause for my experience. My experience is the result of choices I have made.

The key element that distinguishes these two viewpoints is choice. The victim doesn't see that they have choices. This is revealed in the use of three common victim statements: 1) I can't, 2) I have to, and 3) They won't.

Using each of the above statements, make a list of how you look at life from the perspective of a victim. Here are some examples to get you started:
I can't raise my income, because...
I can't be competitive, because...
I can't have what I want, because...
I can't get my customer (vendor, boss, subordinate) to listen to me, because...
I have to say yes, because...
I have to agree to these goals, because...
I have to work here, because...
I have to do it this way, because...
I have to run this kind of schedule, because...
They won't allow me to...
They won't let me do it the way I want...
They won't listen to me...
They won't work harder...
They won't ever change...

After you make your own true list, simply change all the statements to "I choose to.. ." At first you might resist this exercise, but do it anyway! Do you notice that rewording your statements to "I choose to..." feels different? That's because victim statements are draining. They consume energy and bring with them resentment, powerlessness and frustration. When you make choices, however, you create options and feel empowered.

In our summer teenage leadership "live in" seminars, the theme for the class is: "Every moment is a choice, and every choice has benefits and prices." At the beginning of camp, one of the students inevitably brings up something he or she views as an exception to having choices by saying that school is mandatory. Our facilitator responds by saying, "No, that is a choice." The student usually argues by saying, "No, I have to go to school." Our facilitator then maintains, "No, you are choosing to go to school." This verbal volley continues until the student eventually says something such as, "Look. If I don't go to school, they'll drag me to juvenile hall." At this point, our facilitator says, "That's correct! That's called a price! You are choosing to go to school and pay one price, instead of another."

When we're honest with ourselves and admit that we make choices because of consequences, our experience changes. We begin to see how we can live from a responsible -- rather than a victim - point-of-view.

("Forwarded from The Klemmer Team newsletter, www.klemmer.com" )
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